Big Wedding vs Intimate wedding – how do you choose?

Big Wedding vs Intimate wedding – how do you choose?

Here at your favourite Cornwall wedding venue, Tredudwell Manor, we are delighted to offer a completely tailor-made experience for you and your wedding, but that means that sometimes couples think we only do big weddings! Not at all! We love welcoming all sizes of celebrations, and so we are delighted to show you how you can have lovely big wedding for you and all your loved ones or choose a special, intimate weddings in Cornwall package just for those who want to celebrate their love in a private but, nonetheless, still beautiful way.

It’s really important to decide how you as a couple, want to celebrate your big day. To help you decide what you want to do, we thought we would show you how to decide whether you want a small wedding or a big wedding for your special day.

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Mollie McAusland
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Dan Ward

1. Managing your guest list

You’ve spent months planning your big day, and you want to invite all your loved ones, friends, family, and colleagues from work. Alternatively, you may have complex family dynamics, or simply be a private couple who only wish to have a select handful of guests.We know that not everyone’s family setup is straightforward, and if there have been difficult relationships within the family, this can bring added complications and stress to a wedding. Instead, by keeping it small for an intimate wedding, you can choose exactly who you as a couple want there, without the stress of managing the difficult relationships.  It might be a hard decision to cut down but that’s the great thing about having loads of options getting married here at Tredudwell. You can have up to 220 wedding guests for a larger wedding, or up to 20 for an intimate wedding in Cornwall with us. You choose to have a smaller ceremony with a bigger evening party. The guests you invite will have an awesome time, no matter what size wedding you choose.

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Steven Rees Webb
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Ian Butler

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2. Managing your wedding budget

When it comes to planning your wedding, there really is so much choice with how you spend your money. There’s food, music, outfits, decor, drinks, entertainment, and more! With a big wedding comes a lot more costs, you need to keep them fed and watered and entertained of course! But with an intimate wedding, you can cut back on those additional costs and not have to spend so much of your money on a big day (particularly if you didn’t want a big celebration in the first place!)

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Nick Walker
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Dan Ward

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3. Big wedding vs intimate wedding – Less stress, more support

No matter whether you choose a small or a big wedding, you will always have plenty of support available when you choose to get married at Tredudwell. The team here are on hand to help you make your big day a reality, but also due to our experience, we know how it is getting friends and family involved. In fact, we wrote a blog about the different roles we recommend you need to support your day. This could also help you reduce the stress that sometimes comes with planning a wedding, whether big or small! The point is, we never want you to be afraid to ask for help.

Related: Wedding Roles – our list

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Dave grey dog images
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Dan Ward
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Emily Hankins mural painting/Mollie Mc Ausland
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Mollie McAusland

4. What kind of atmosphere are you looking for?

A small intimate wedding can have a more relaxed and personal feel. Guests can mingle easily, and the event may feel more like a close-knit gathering. A bigger wedding typically means a big party. There’s a more festive and lively atmosphere with a grander style of celebration.

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Yeti films and photography
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Yeti films and photography

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5. Down to your personal preference

A big wedding will appeal to social butterflies, couples who enjoy large parties and want to make a big impact with their wedding. It will allow for more elaborate decorations and entertainment for the atmosphere. A small intimate wedding will suit couples who prefer low-key events, focusing on meaningful moments and personal touches.

Ultimately, the choice between a small wedding and a big wedding depends on your personal priorities, budget, and vision for your special day. Consider what aspects are most important to you and your partner, and choose the option that best aligns with your preferences and circumstances.

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Mollie McAusland

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So there you have it. We hope you feel clearer about whether you want a big or intimate wedding here at Tredudwell. Have we convinced you to go for it? Get in touch to check our availability. We are excited to welcome you soon! And of course, if you have any other questions about our intimate weddings, please don’t hesitate to ask us.

Valerie and all at Tredudwell x

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